POWER OF PUSSY: May 2008

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Review by Park Avenue Princess

This excellent review brought up some very interesting questions from this reviewer

The Power of Pussy By: Sandy Patsy
Publisher: Xlibris Company
Pub. Date: February 2008
128 pp.


I REALLY LIKED THIS BOOK! It's honesty and raw emotion got me from the very start. Sandy opens up her life for all to view and to me, that's a bold move on her part and it takes guts! I hope I have half the energy Sandy does when I'm 60! A truly amazing woman, with a truly amazing story.

My review and thoughts:

"man can have sex with no love"
"and man can have love with no sex"

With a unique writing style all her own, Sandy Patsy's debut title "The Power of Pussy" is witty and insightful. Packed with information that I wish I my mother told me when I first started dating and fell in love. But this certainly isn't the information your mother's going to hand you freely in a heart-to-heart! Sandy's journal is sinfully sexy. All of her thoughts and emotions are laid out on the line.Informative, seductive and straight to the point, from cover to cover this book is full of surprises and fun! As we take a trip through the course of Peter and Sandy's relationship, not a single juicy detail is spared. Have you ever wanted to read someone else's journal or diary? Or maybe said "Oh, I wish I could be a fly on that wall, right now!"Well, now you can! Sandy's kept meticulous notes about her thoughts, feelings and desires and she shares them openly with a style that pulls no punches Each and every one of us become not just a guest in her bedroom, but in her mind. Sandy's thoughts provoke questions and those questions leave you thinking long after you close the book.

Do women really keep a man in their lives unhappily jut because they don't want to be alone? Or Should a woman make a man feel he's always right even when he's wrong? Yes or No? Do you think men are constantly on the prowl searching for a better or perhaps love that's new? Or just any woman, without a care which, as long as she keeps him believing he's "King of the Castle".


Judge for yourself as you read their private online instant messages to one another and the incidents that seem to occur on each date.A true story of want, need, lust and love by THE woman who lived it and then told all about it.

Review by Park Avenue Princess

Questions for the author and my answers

Q.Great review. A lot of very insightful thoughts. I guess what I would wonder is how her family felt about having her sex life published in a book? I understand 60 is old enough to do what you want and I only wish I could be so bold about it. Sounds like the book is a winner for women everywhere!!!!!!!!

A. My family won't even acknowlege the book.
Does that surprise you? Even my grand daughter who
wrote the poem in the book has trouble with the product
surrounding her precious writing. I don't care. They've
always thought their mother (speaking of my two daughters)
was outrageous. I just say what I think.

Sex, the driving force of life, has to be so secret! WHY?


Q. First of all, I'm sure that I would never be able to write such a book, but it doesn't mean that I wouldn't read it. In fact, it's quite the opposite, I'm sure it is a really nice book, but what I meant is that, unless I change a bit later on, I'd be too shy to write this, but reading it is perfect lol.

A. It is not a nice book.
It's a thought-provoking, provocative, pain-laden
rendition of one woman's perspecitive on numerous
sex acts and various other funny stuff.
If you think about it, we're just animals trying to procreate
without eating/killing our mates.
Sometimes, there's some magic & feels really good for
about two seconds.

Q. Hi, I have to admit that the title and cover of the book intimidates me a bit! That doesn't mean that I wouldn't read your book. I think you are talking about the control women can have over men with their indoor plumbing!

A. No, it's not about control of man & his penis.
It's about figuring out what's right
for you. When you can do that, the
sex flows freely. Well, it should.
Should...I HATE THAT WORD. It
doesn't compute. Should doesn't solve
anything. "I should be 30 & as smart
at that age as I think I am now."

Should can be a criticism, as I tend to use it myself
in regards to "what I should do."
" I should have left Peter before I did."
Not necessarily true



Q. When did you first decide to submit your work? Please tell me what or who made you make this big step?

A. I decided to write this book when I deemed that I might be insane.
When I compiled my revelations, I ranted and raved to my friends.
They were the worst....what could I possibly know about a shitty
relationship & how it might have something to do with them ????
COME ON !!! We've all had confusion, denial, ectstasy (or what
we thought was wonderful at the time....actually, it wasn't), AND
DISAPPOINTMENT. You are lying to yourself if you do not admit
to the above. Half of solving dilemmas is acknowledgement.

Thus, this incredible admittance of idiocy on my part is all out
there in black & white & red. Absolutely anyone who reads it, REALLY
reads it, will take something away to apply to enrich their lives.
Or change their lives, if that's what is wanted. Usually it isn't.
Women just want to bitch. And men. Well, men just want.....you know.

Q. What would you like to tell your readers?

A. Readers: Just read it. Answer the questions, that I asked myself that
I couldn't deal with. Answer for yourself. Anyone who wants to question anything,
I would love to communicate with. We'd have a ball. If you don't laugh at
most of your "stuff," you will be miserable.



Q. What is the best advice you ever received?

A. Leave Peter.

Q. What is the worst?

A. Leave Peter.
If I had listened to myself and gotten out in time...before I thought it was
love, there wouldn't even be a book.

Another question from a reader........and my answer

From my reader:
I have read your book and I really enjoyed it. It pointed out a few things to me that I did to work on.
It's kinda funny...my daughters ask me if they could read your book. I told the eighteen year old yes, but I hesitated to tell my fifteen year old it was ok. Then I thought back to the book itself and I told her sure you can. What do you think? Do you have any objection to a fifteen year old reading your book ?

My answer is:
No, absolutely not.
She should read it !
This may be the first book she reads to address the first
time a young girl has sex and how to tell her
what it means. It's going to hurt and you
must stress that SHE WILL NOT BE IN LOVE.

My book is lovingly, respectfully dedicated to my dear grand daughters and all young girls.............................

I hope their copy gets as tattered as mine is from reading and rereading it.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Power of Pussy Book Review by Crystal

Sandy Patsy's book, Power of Pussy is about her getting the feelings for her on again off again boyfriend, Peter onto the paper, in which helps clear up the confusion of men.Why do men think they have all of the power, when it is we women who have what they crave and lust after? The black widow and female praying mantis, have a great lifestyle, find a mate, intercourse, and then have them for dinner…literally! Ah, but if it were only that easy.Through Sandy's eyes and life experiences, at the age of 60 she considers herself an expert, on the Power of Pussy. Saved notes, feelings, true events, and ramblings make up the interior of this book.Ms. Patsy uses colorful language, and pulls no stops when it comes to showing her true feelings for Peter or actually men in general. Parts of the Power of Pussy were laugh out loud funny while others were informative and full of emotion. Step into a sneak peak of Sandy's love life by reading her book. 4 HeartsBook Reviews by Crystal Adkins

Friday, May 16, 2008

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO PRINCESS AMY !

As many of you are aware, Amy of Royal Reviews is very sick and in the hospital for an extended stay and is fighting for her life. Her birthday is soon. What I would like to do is get together a birthday box from all of us. Please let her know you care even if it is just a comment on her blog or mine. If you would like to send something special to her in her birthday box - let me know and I will send you my address.

Amy loves her heels, her dresses and being a girlie girl.
She loves her "sparklies" which is jewelry.
She's called it that since she could talk.
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    Thank you so much. Amy will be so happy to be remembered on her birthday !
    I got this idea from Trish who is sending Amy a care package this week - thank you Trish!


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    Thursday, May 15, 2008

    AuthorIsland.com Book of the Day !

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  • Win The Controversial Memoir POWER OF PUSSY

    From the intimate thoughts and pen of author Sandy Patsy comes a controversial journal served hot from the plate for readers especially women everywhere. Her mind-boggling account of the lust-driven relationship she had with Peter Straat, provides women a life handbook-guide-outline-map of the world of sex and the Power of Pussy .

    Follow Patsy's records of her sex-filled moments and incredible open lovemaking, as she realizes how Peter (or the MALE gender) MUST BE THE LION KING. Witness how she, even at age 60, is still boggled by the overwhelming sensations and overpowering desires to achieve passionate sex anytime anywhere. Her vivid and descriptive account of their secret affair --- hot and fiery rendezvous, ardent and sizzling tryst, and even obsessive jealousy --- is reflected through her thoughts, emails, feelings, and narrative.

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  • Monday, May 12, 2008

    MY MAMA TOLD ME

    NEVER GET MARRIED !!!

    Looking back, she was so ahead of her time and I of course set out immediately to get married. Now I truly understand what she was trying to tell me.

    A lifetime to listen.

    Saturday, May 10, 2008

    Does your title indicate that you think that a woman can control weaker men via sex?

    Not just weaker men, ALL MEN.

    Wednesday, May 7, 2008

    Review by Park Avenue Princess


    The Power of Pussy By: Sandy Patsy
    Publisher: Xlibris Company
    Pub. Date: February 2008
    128 pp.

    A Note From the Author:
    This mind-boggling journal-of-sorts was borne out of love. True love that had not yet existed for a 60-year old, still hot, simmering woman. I already had a full stressful life with a demanding & money-making career, a millionaire boyfriend, two beautiful daughters and grandchildren that I all loved well.Enter Peter Straat. Our lust-driven relationship that has made my life the most sex-filled time is recorded for you to read by incredible open lovemaking to verbal warfare.

    Here's the key to our relationship, just understand one thing: HE MUST BE THE LION KING. That's how I started and am still continuing this journey with Peter Straat. I worshiped his dick. We had sex anywhere anytime he wanted. We are both so passionate, it also came out in bad ways including the biggie: jealousy.If you can relate and want to know more, read my book. -Sandy Patsy*


    I REALLY LIKED THIS BOOK! It's honesty and raw emotion got me from the very start. Sandy opens up her life for all to view and to me, that's a bold move on her part and it takes guts! I hope I have half the energy Sandy does when I'm 60! A truly amazing woman, with a truly amazing story.

    My review and thoughts:

    "man can have sex with no love"
    "and man can have love with no sex"

    With a unique writing style all her own, Sandy Patsy's debut title "The Power of Pussy" is witty and insightful. Packed with information that I wish I my mother told me when I first started dating and fell in love. But this certainly isn't the information your mother's going to hand you freely in a heart-to-heart! Sandy's journal is sinfully sexy. All of her thoughts and emotions are laid out on the line.Informative, seductive and straight to the point, from cover to cover this book is full of surprises and fun! As we take a trip through the course of Peter and Sandy's relationship, not a single juicy detail is spared. Have you ever wanted to read someone else's journal or diary? Or maybe said "Oh, I wish I could be a fly on that wall, right now!"Well, now you can! Sandy's kept meticulous notes about her thoughts, feelings and desires and she shares them openly with a style that pulls no punches Each and every one of us become not just a guest in her bedroom, but in her mind. Sandy's thoughts provoke questions and those questions leave you thinking long after you close the book.

    Do women really keep a man in their lives unhappily jut because they don't want to be alone? Or Should a woman make a man feel he's always right even when he's wrong? Yes or No? Do you think men are constantly on the prowl searching for a better or perhaps love that's new? Or just any woman, without a care which, as long as she keeps him believing he's "King of the Castle". Judge for yourself as you read their private online instant messages to one another and the incidents that seem to occur on each date.A true story of want, need, lust and love by THE woman who lived it and then told all about it.




    Review by Park Avenue Princess

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