To follow up on yesterday,

To follow up on yesterday, here's the question of the
day....Do we need to rid ourselves of the 'mean' to meet and keep
a man ?????
I'm thinking I do, but I am the most inexperienced of all
of you. My friend "Fran" (let's call her), is light
years ahead of me in terms of figuring out where the
object of our affection is coming from. She's done all
of the suffering 30 years ago that I am doing today.
Some of my concerns she scoffs at because she absolutely
CANNOT believe how I could be sooo ignorant.
Is there an instruction manual for figuring out the universe?

When I wrote P.O.P., I was just then becoming
acquainted with MYSELF, which came last, of course. We usually do
ourselves last, even in bed. The error of my way was concentrating
on the stupid Peter; trying to figure out his every word-usage or thought.
That was fruitless. He never meant what he said and he never had an
original thought. In fact, he NEVER had a thought at all. WHAT WAS
I THINKING???.....MEN DO NOT HAVE THOUGHTS !!!!!!